Secret Seduction Files: What Happened Next Was The Most Interesting Phone Call Of My Life! Usually my phone calls with women are fairly short. Mostly because I don’t like talking on the phone but also because I want to save the good stuff for the date. In my wussy years I would spend hours on the phone with a girl listening to all her problems ideas or whatever it was she wanted to talk about that. When I started getting serious about dating women I cut that down dramatically. But because Jamie and I are such good friends and hadn’t talked in a while we had a lot to cover. She began telling me about how she’d gotten engaged again and about how she met her current fiancé and how he won her over – even though she wasn’t attracted to him at first! She told me about a guy who began stalking her at work and all the things he did wrong that really turned her off in the first place. She began telling me about how she had her first lesbian experience and actually hooked up with her best friend! Needless to say I was captivated. Obviously we had a great rapport going on so she was comfortable enough to share all these details with me. I began asking her questions about certain things that lead up to these events getting details and insights from her and suddenly found myself understanding a lot about how women think about men love sex and many other things guys usually take for granted. When I got off the phone with her I felt like I had learned more about the way women think in a one hour phone call than I had with a year of going out to the clubs. That’s When I Started Keeping My Secret Files… After my talk with Jamie I began recording some phone calls I had with women I’d meet. After reviewing what I had talked about with the girl I’d open up a journal and start writing about what I head learned from the conversation. Insights into dating seduction women in general – anything that came up.